My cousin Melissa turned 23 on friday, and decided that she wanted to celebrate by jumping out of a plane and falling from the sky. She invited people to come with, and since it’s been forever on my “Bucket List” I told her I AM IN!
Friday, I fell from the sky.
When she made the announcement, without hesitation, I said, I’d do it. (Well, I did have one hesitation, and that was work since it was a friday. I asked my boss and he told me to enjoy the jump!!)
For most of the week, it kept popping into my head that I was going to do this crazy thing. The suspense kept building up, along with the nerves, but I never reached that level of nervousness where I just wanted to back out. Sure, I was terrified, but I was willing to do it.
Friday morning, I was in a little bit shaken up, and I almost threw up from my nerves. (I tend to want to dry heave when I’m really nervous.) But there’s no backing out after a $50 has been made. And I was excited to do it! At least I wasn’t nervous enough to not want to eat. I pretty much ate normally. (Another indication that I’m nervous is that I will refuse to eat.)
We were to meet some of her friends in front of the grocery store across from her neighborhood. They were all boys, and they were all nervous. They just kept shifting their weight back and forth in anticipation and working themselves up into a ball of fear. You’d think that that would get me on edge, but to be frank … it kind of calmed me down a bit. I had a feeling that I wasn’t as nervous as they were, and that made me feel ok.
Or, it could be a really horrible state of denial.
We were waiting on a few more of Melissa’s friends and they were taking FOR-EV-ER to meet us at the store. One of them was bringing her entire family, and considering they run on Filipino Time* we were in an even more panic to even make it on time! We had a 10 am reservation, and we were already looking at 9:30. It takes about 20–30 minutes to get there. In an attempted to move it along, we told them to meet us a little further down the road at the Wal*Mart. Melissa was already pretty anxious, but this put her on edge even more. We did not want to be late on top of having to worry about jumping out of a plane.
And when we were at the Walmart, one of her friends was so worked up, he started to jog around the parking lot to work off some of that energy (plus, he stupidly drank a lot of coffee before!).
Now, if you know me, I am fully OPPOSED to Filipino Time. And at this point, I started to get nervous. NOT about jumping from a plane, but FROM BEING LATE! Oh my gosh, OCD!
Dean (the aforementioned friend that jogged around the lot), called the skydiving place to let them know we were running late, and they told us to bring them coffee to make up for it. The two other guys went inside the Walmart to get some coffee from the indoor McDonalds. The McDonalds folks packed them inside a paper bag, cause they were out of holders.
ANYWAY … the people we were waiting for FINALLY arrived.
And so we started to make our way to the skydiving place.
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